Girls, do you find self-deprecating humor to be a turn-off?

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I was talking to a female friend recently about dating, and I was complaining about having a hard time getting girls to go out with me. I can talk to them, but I get rejected most of the time I ask girls out. Her take was pretty interesting. She told me that I'm attractive physically, but that girls aren't attracted to how I act. Specifically, girls lose attraction to me because I put myself down too much, that I make jokes at my own expense so much hat girls feel sorry for me. In her words, self-deprecating humor "kills lady boners quicker than bad BO."

I know I do use self-deprecating humor a lot, but I guess I didn't realize the effect it had on girls. Was my friend right?
Girls, do you find self-deprecating humor to be a turn-off?
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