No matter what woman shows interest in me I always assume she is settling for me and it makes me feel anxious and it has caused me to put off getting into a serious relationships. I tend to attract women who have had colorful pasts or who are tired of dating "jerks" and I am someone who has never had a colorful past or dated jerks, I am just a quiet, reserved man that keeps himself to himself. I find myself quite boring and rather mediocre, so it baffles me as to why any woman likes me.
Is it a sign that you are an insecure person if you feel people are settling for you when they show interest?
What Girls Said 2
Yes, that's insecurity speaking. Mature, decent people look for a relationship that is going to be healthy and stable going forward. They may have had crazy pasts or they may have always been stable, drama free people. Either way, wanting someone who is mature, drama free, and normal is not bad or "settling".0
Yes it does. If you'll settle for a person who's just settling for you0
What Guys Said 1
You are everything you think you are. Others will see you the way you see yourself. If you don't like who you are - change.0
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