How do you feel about the waiting?
I don't mind tbhOnce in a while I would wake up and check my phone , somewhat praying that he would message but then it only lasts for a few seconds. Especially since I know that I do not want to be with him now because I am not my best self.
That's quite inspiring - thank you.
Am kind of in the same place, it is hard but we can focus on the good we can do in life and like you said, the wanting can come and go and hopefully will get easier in time. :)
@ asker I am glad, and no problem@LoveHolyGod yup!
This is the dilemma I'm facing at the moment!
Are you thinking about waiting for someone?
Yes there's a guy who a friend set me up with. We talked for 3 months not meeting due to a family bereavement and he was there for me through that. He broke up with his long term girlfriend in April so I helped him with that. We got closer and finally met up a few times. Then he went quiet. His friend reckons it's all a lot to take in after his break up (and they have a child together) - I think there could be something there but I can't be 100% certain.
I forgot to say he is quieter but we still chat via text and he has apologised for being quiet but he has been busy and stressed and we will meet up again soon when he has more free time.
Hmm I think that if you really like him you could wait. There's also the thinking that if it is meant to be it will happen between the two of you eventually. If you really like him just continue to be there for him and go easy on him and go at his pace and see what happens. You could ask him how he feels when the time is right
Yeah that sounds like a good idea - thank you.
I'm sorry I couldn't help more 😔
You've been a big help thank you. That's why I love this site - all the crazy questions in my head I can actually get advice on!
Lol ok thanks :)
Aww thank you so much!
No problem - thank you!
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