I did a shitty thing against my boyfriend... I read his Facebook messages. I know it's wrong, and it's an invasion of privacy. I get that. I did it, because I feel like my boyfriend holds a lot back from me and he says a lot more with his friends than he wouldn't tell me.
What I found was a convo between his friend how he was out for dinner and he saw this waitress who is a "fine ass honey" and he was sad that she didn't serve him. And he even had a sad face next to it. I bothered me, because he lied to me about how he doesn't check out women. I wouldn't care if he told me he does, but it's the fact for me that he lies about it. I know it's weird and trivial to me upset about, and I think maybe part of it is that he found someone attractive. When I brought it up to him and what I read, he kept dodging the question and only saying that I aggravate him and all he wanted to do was watch a video with me. He wouldn't outright deny or confirm even though it's in his messages.
I get it: he's human. I'm upset at the fact that he cannot be honest with me. I have a hard time getting over being mad and the last thing I wanna do is piss him off even more. I don't know, am I being weird and stupid?
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You did something wrong, he lied and now you know all this but rather let it bother you. Guy will check girls out. That's a given. No reason to lie about it. But I wouldn't let affect me either. You started something could be avoided. Now you found out your attempting to make bigger than what it's not. Guys when see a nice peice of ass we don't look away. When we see a girls boobs hanging of her shirt we don't look away. It's attractive to us. It's a light skinned guy with sea blue eyes and a 6 pac jogging down the street with his shirt off. Tell me you won't glance at him. Ladies some times can't help when there guy ain't around either. So. Let it go.0