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There was this girl I was trying to ask out and she said she never had a boyfriend. However, she later disclosed to me she had this connection with this guy that lasted about a year. Although they never were in a relationship. She loved him. So wouldn't that mean he is her first love even though he was never her boyfriend?How can I find a girl that has never had a strong connection with a guy?
That seems more of a grey area. She feels as though she loved him, so I suppose that could be her first love. I don't necessarily consider that love, but some define it differently. You will just search until you find one. There is no definite way, since people move at their own pace. Some might have been more academic and career driven, so they might not have experienced love yet.
But won't he always have a sweet spot for him? can't she look back and get those butterfly feelings remembering him?
I don't know her, or her future. I just know that I do not feel that way about the guy I thought I was in love with. Looking back, it feels more like infatuation than love. If I am with a guy, I don't think about other men.
Do you still feel those feelings of infatuation when you think of him? Do you still get those butterfly feelings?
No, not at all.
Why do you love your current SO more?
I don't have a current SO.