I just started dating this older guy who says that he likes women who are sexually uninhibited, adventurous, fun, etc... I'm extremely shy and am a virgin as well. He was also talking about how I was still "a little virgin girl" who is still growing and how he had been "around the block" and knows "everything". My question is, why would he still want to date me if I'm obviously not good enough for him? Are these remarks meant to be put-downs?