I've been seeing this guy for about 7 months. I really like him a lot. We fight a lot tho because I can be a bit insecure. He's in the entertainment industry and he travels so much. We were together a few nights ago. He started telling me how I can be "crazy" . He said I'd be so sexy if I "grew up". He said "I'd be with you everyday hell I'd probably leave... everything for you" I asked him what he said and he said "I'd probably leave everything for you I just wish you'd grow up a bit" ... I sent him a massive text stating that I wanted us to be better and that I am trying to work on the insecurity. Is it a bad sign that he pointed that out to me? Is he asking me to change?