Me and this girl had a very intimate moment for just friends. The day after she told me to stay friends, I got angry and left. That started a fight, and a month later things cleared. It was because we live pretty far away and to have a relationship wouldn't work out very well and she was dying for it to work. But didn't want to deal with the sh*t that comes with it (neither am I).
Anyway, things have been normal, I know she is really affectionate for me. I have been ignoring her because of it, and she has been texting me all the time. However, she texts me most when she is out with her friends, drunk, and sometimes alone.
But, they have been basically one or two texts, and that is it. A simple "Hey." then she will say what she is doing then ask me. Then that's it. This point she is just saying "Hey" and not responded.
Haha, this is so weird, I think she is trying to get my attention or seeing if I am angry at her (which I am not), or trying to tell me to talk to her. Sometimes its her friends telling her not to text me, otherwise I don't get what she is doing, any ideas?
I was thinking of just calling her on the phone just to talk to her, then ignore her for another week. Just to keep her going, yes I play this game with people I like and it works. It's a good tip for girls who don't like being manipulated, but I would just go with it.
Oh yeah, she texts me drunk at like 5am. But, I ignore it because I am either sleeping or what not. I think she really wants me, but can't bring herself to tell me sober.
I know at least one of you does this or have done this!
At least a Guy who has experienced this and doesn't know wtf is going on - Me
Anyway, by the end of the week I will find what's up
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i can totally relate to this. a friend and I had an intimate moment once, and it made him all confused. he's trying to avoid me for the past weeks and even blocked me in his life. last week he sent me a text me and apologized and we went out together and didn't hear from him again. this left me quite confused. :P upon reading this question, I realized that it's one of his games...now I'm planning to throw his game back at him :P
she might be texting you a lot when she's drunk to see if you really care for her. maybe she's trying to weigh how you really feel about her. she needed assurance that you're totally into her and if she thinks you are, then she might have the courage to tell you what she really feels and want from you. I am answering base on what I feel... cos I found myself in the same exact situation. I do text this guy but not when I'm drunk tho...i just like sending him rumor texts just to let him feel that everything's still cool but I'm also weighing things..im just waiting for a sign from him that he's really into me and if it's that the case, I will have the courage to tell him want I want just to clear things...whatever the answer is, ill be totally cool with it! ;)
so don't be afraid to be straightforward with her. it doesn't matter if you'll have a long distance relationship or whatever...feelings matter and if you really like each other, you'll find a way to make it work :) we should take risks sometimes, it's a win-lose situation, but the feeling when you passed that risk will be heaven :) but yeah, if you need time to think it over, do it so...things like this shouldn't be rushed :) good luck! ;)1
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