I've been dating my first and only girlfriend for about 2 years and 8 months. I love her so much and she means so much to me and I mean so much to her. She does so many little things for me that would otherwise stress me out. I'm very close with her family and she is very close with mine. This past summer I joined a swim team where I met this new girl. In about September I began having feelings for this girl. She is super nice and always has a smile on her face. I've started to fall for her and now I can't stop thinking about her. She always makes excuses to be near me and talk with me. She also flirts a lot with me. Her and her friends have dropped lots of hints that she likes me and that she wants to be asked out. I'm not sure if she knows about my girlfriend but I know that some of her friends know. I feel so torn about this as for the longest time I felt that my current girlfriend was the one. I don't want to ruin my relationship for nothing but I also feel that a relationship with this other girl could be even better. Im not the kind of guy that will cheat so if I'm gonna go out with this other girl I need to break up with my current one first but I also have no idea how I would do that either.
Most Helpful Girl
You Love your girlfriend and You really like the other Girl. Your girlfriend is %80 bc of your love for her and her love for you, she has a lot to offer and you have history with her. The other girl is 20% bc you have feelinsg for her (you didn't say you love her, you just really like her), she makes you smile, She is so nice and you keep thinking about her bc you like her. Now which one are you willing to give up? Your 80%, which would be a big mistake or Your 20%? i can see if you were having a lot of problems with your girlfriend and she did something so horrible for you to leave her for this woman, but that is not the case at all. Stay with Your girlfriend. She is the one and risking to lose that to a girl you just like a lot is not wise bc it will be hard to find another woman like your girlfriend who is 80% of everything you want in a woman and have. So, i would stop hanging around the other girl and flirting back or even putting yourself in situations where you can feel for her more or even go to far and risk losing your 80%. Be the great boyfriend and man you are and control those urges and realize that what you got at home is enough and to not be taken for granted. Love is rare, like is common.0
Most Helpful Guy
I have bad news for you, you already cheated her with feelings.3