how many times a week do you think is okay to talk to someone you are trying to get to know better but aren't actually going out. this guy I have a huge crush on exchanged numbers with me. we have been talking about 1-2 a week. if he stops at work to see me its like for 10-15 min but on the phone hours. I haven't talked to him for 2 days and it feels like forever but I don't want to call him and have him think I call too much. should I wait a few more days to call? maybe I should just wait til he calls?
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yes, I think its better for you to wait until he himself calls. you don't want him to think ur so into him. men like t do the chasing, not the other way around.and you'll make urself more mysterious and he'll just want to call you more.
well, my friends trick is this: she would call a guy often or enough so that she and the guy will get along really well. and then gradually cut back on the calls. but don't always initiate the calls. and don't answer texts or calls immediately or he might think you're always waiting for his texts. give it a few more minutes so he'd think you're really busy. and then when you think he's falling more for you, that's when you gradually cut back on calls and texts so that he'll miss you more.0