When I was younger, it was all about love. I didn't care if he had -$200 in the back. I was all about love. Now that I'm older, its like he must have his own money. I feel bad because it feels like I'm losing myself because I never thought money will be that important in a relationship. It has always been strictly about love for me. Am I wrong for wanting him to be somewhat financially stable? And how do I get back to not caring about how much he has as long as I love him?