I don't really have a reason to dislike it but I feel uneasy about it. His friends are always pointing out hot girls in front of me and him and he agrees but in a non sexual way. Like his friends would say 'damn she's fine' really loudly about a Girl walking past and theyd look at him and he'd say 'yh she's pretty'(maybe because I'm around). They call him Whipped which tells me when I'm not around he'd join in you know? by the way his friends are dating girls but they always talk about girls.
But then my boyfriend also talks about relationship and dating a lot to. His friends say things like 'Don't text her wait' or they give him stupid advice in general. They insult the guys that are texting there GFs in a group hangout. Most of this I see through his texts. I only know this because I ask him what they are talking about and can read the screen next to him to.
Is this normal? I feel like these guys could give stupid advice to my boyfriend because they peer pressure a lot. They also have this 'pick up that chick' mentality for every hot girl.
Most Helpful Guy
Yes, that's normal. It's also immature and boorish. One ought not make comments the way they do in front of you. It's rude at any age. Of course he's toning it down because of your presence. At least he recognizes it's wrong and that's something to his credit. They do, too, and hence they are giving him a hard time about it. Perhaps he also knows better than to use their advice with you. Time will tell but I'll bet he does. In the meantime, you can avoid going out with him and his friends. There is no need to be mean about it. Just say no thank you. If he asks why, tell him, "when your friends make comments about females, it makes me uncomfortable. It's like the only reason they don't do it about me also is because I'm there. So when we spend time together, I prefer it's just us." He'll get it loud and clear and you won't have forced him to be defensive with some it's-me-or-them ultimatum. You'll have offered him a compromise that should work for both of you.0
Most Helpful Girl
I am sorry, but your boyfriend's friends sound like complete retards.0