For women I mean.
- I'm over 35 -- No, it's not harder10%(3)7%(5)Vote5%(2)
- I'm over 35 -- It's a little harder17%(5)12%(8)Vote8%(3)
- I'm over 35 -- It's moderately harder7%(2)7%(5)Vote8%(3)
- I'm under 35 -- I don't think it would be harder7%(2)7%(5)Vote8%(3)
- I'm under 35 -- I think it would be little harder30%(9)28%(19)Vote27%(10)
- I'm under 35 -- I think it would be moderately harder23%(7)19%(13)Vote16%(6)
Most Helpful Guy
It's only harder because many women MAKE it harder.
A friend of mine has half a dozen single female friends. They have ALL been single for over a year. Their guys must be an EXACT match in height, weight, skin colour, accent, country of origin, job, salary, car, etc. I'm not exaggerating!
Literally, I overheard one of them say "He's perfect except he drives a BMW instead of an Audi. I can't date him for that."
There are of course many women who simply want someone to love, and someone to love them, but I find that more and more put road blocks in the way as an excuse.0
Most Helpful Girl
I think between the ages of 25 and 35, maybe even 40 it gets harder. I'm 27 and I am having a hard time dating. Most of the guys my age are married, engaged or have just had kids with someone, or they are only looking for something casual or NSA. So the dating pool is really not that great.
I'm seeing a lot of guys on there who are bitter (which becomes clear when you read their profiles, they tend to rant about women on the profile). I'm also seeing a lot of guys who just recently got out of long-term relationships.
It kind of makes me feel like I've missed my chance! And no, I wasn't out partying and sleeping around. I've been working hard at trying to find someone and have not succeeded :( It kind of makes me feel like a failure :(
I think though, after 40 (and this is going to sound terrible), that it gets easier. Mainly because people have divorced and their kids are older. So people are less scattered or less involved in drama and more settled. Maybe I'm wrong, but from what I am seeing from being online those are the men who seem to be most interested in actually finding a fulfilling relationship.
Younger people also tend to be at the beginning stages of their careers. So they are really just focusing on work.
Hopefully things start to get easier for you. Sometimes what the problem really is, is a dry spell. We all get them. Just do your best to meet new people. Keep busy and lean on friends for moral support!0