Are These signs of interest or simply just friendly behaviour?

Two months ago I began speaking to a guy in my class we eventually found out we had the same major and then in our following classes we would say hi to one another or simply ask how are you and have small talk before class and during class. Last month we were the only two people in our row so he began speaking to me even more, we then found out we lived close to one another, and he for example showed me an app he used on his phone and mentioned to me that he would go to his friend’s house after class and so on. We then took the train home together and then we had a full conversation , he then asked me what I did outside of school and we just discussed my various relocations and had a nice conversation, when it came to his stop as I was about to wave him goodbye, he then hugged me and gave me a kiss on both cheeks. The next morning to my surprise he had added me on Facebook, keep in mind we had no mutual friends that I knew off and I’m shocked on how he even knew my real Facebook name so I accepted his Facebook request. The next class we spoke and he started the conversation by asking me what was going on in my life and what I planned to do after the end of the semester and I just told him I wanted to do something fun and relaxing and he asked me to define what fun was to me and we just joked around and spoke. He then went on to tell me that he hoped to one day have a nice house and a fireplace and just a nice life after university during the end of our conversation he then told me he wanted to ask me a very strange question and he began looking down on his pants and then suddenly asked me if I had pliers to fix his jeans. As we were talking I notice he would look around , seemed fidgety and plain nervousness at times, when he looked at me he would smile and just dreamy.

I'm 20 and he is 22

Last week in class he walked in and said hi I then proceeded to asking him how he was and he then said bad and I asked him then what had occurred? he hesitated for a few seconds and then began telling me how his research had been accidently deleted earlier the day and how he was unable to complete it. He then proceeded to telling me that it was enough about his day and how I was doing and we just spoke bit during class and then mentioned he wishes he was as responsible as me.
And also last week We ran into one another outside before class and he then proceeded to asking me if I wanted a drink with him before class and i said sure so we went and purchased beers and sat around a corner and just simply spoke about various topics. And then this week his behaviour just changed he just looks angry and would ignore me at times and just isn't being so friendly so I just left him alone and chose not to bother him. Thank you.


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  • He's interested in you, he obviously like you or he wouldn't speak to you so often and tell all of the things he tells you. He's probably just going through a rough patch in life and doesn't know how to cope, most guys aren't good at talking about our problems, we tend to clam up and try to deal with it our selves (which is usualya bad way to deal with it). Just give him some time and let him try to work it out himself for awhile. He'll come around, and if he still doesn't talk to you after a while, you can ask him if everything is ok, and if you did something wrong.


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