That's the only reason I have courage to ask guys out. I prepare for them to say no mentally but ask as if I have the confidence they'll say yes. I'm cool if this guy says no. We can stay friends if he is okay with that.
ah i see, we kinda think alike haha xD. Cause now i do the same when i ask a girl out, i ask with top almighty confidence, but always expecting a rejection. It got to a point that one time when a girl said yes i was shocked and caught offguard, my face became red and i didn't know what to do xD. I told her 'FUK... what?'
I think it's brilliant! How would you react if a guy asked you to mend a button back into his coat? Just curious. Would that be too much trouble?
I like your reasoning behind it, and there are many reasons to do it. I've just never thought of getting him to help me with something. I liked the general idea behind it. I'd sew the button back lol it wouldn't be trouble at all.
I would build a bookshelf for sure. I would actually appreciating the girl asking. Some gender theory I've heard is that men get their meaning from "doing," while women get meaning from "being." -- of course this is a generalization, but interesting. Gender theory is silly but still interesting.
I'd agree to most of the observations found in Gender Theory. Thank you for the information and advice. I always enjoy your perspective.
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I'm not shy😂 Otherwise I wouldn't have the guts to ask him out. We are definitely attracted to each other, but there hasn't been much other flirtation. I just want to clarify that I see him as more than a friend. I think I'll start flirting a bit first though.
it doesn't really important. just try to learn about him more and let him know about you.
yes i agree