Went out with this guy for a while. I messed up (not cheating) and i apologized and I decided that it was better we not be together. He wanted to make things work. I did not.
We separated for a few months and the whole time he would not stop calling or texting me. Finally I accepted to reconnect with him. I always asked him if things were good between us, if he forgave me. And he said it was all good. He even made jokes about it.
I thought things were going great. Until we got into a very charged emotional argument. He brought up what I did even though it was over a year ago and broke up with me. And he won't see me anymore and acts very salty when we talk. My friend said it's because the tables have turned and he has the power now, he ended it on his own terms. I'm hurt.
What do I do in a situation like this? Would u say dating is a power game?
Most Helpful Guy
It's a power game for those that make it such. What you do is quit worrying about could've shoulda woulda. You made your decision.2
Most Helpful Girl
He probably acted like it didn't matter, then in a weak moment, he brought it up and he couldn't handle being with you anymore. It happens during arguments.
Yes, dating can be a power game in certain situations.0