i agree as a formal bouncer myself. these young girls just bashing him have no life experience. this goes for a lot of their make beleive views. i go downtown to the entertainment district and can hear women talk about rejecting random dudes that approach them. these girls get big headed bragging about who likes them etc. its disgusting but the men make them that way too.
@Grumps... Good point , it's mainly because ( in their eyes !! ) " thirsty , perverted , sex pest " men keep approaching them & feeding their already huge , narcissistic, egos. I live in the UK , so appears to be the same shit in the whole Anglo world. Women can get away with being nasty to men , it's even encouraged , they have been fed anti male propaganda since they were girls.
glad someone understand whats gong on behind the veil. even disney trains kids from birth. tv shows always depict the men as the immature troublemaker that needs to be saved when in reality, men run shit and women need men to move up in lifestyle and status more often than not. men are rational and objective while women are misinformed and make emotional decisions cause men dont correct them. society always treats them like royalties and like children.isn't UK like feminist central? must scuk with all these delusional trouble makers around lol
Is there anyway u former door men can suggest to women to stop doing this to men? I've stayed in multiple games due to fear of rejection and lack of results after meeting mean women.
@smartman12 . Apart from ejecting the said " mean girls " groups from venues where they will spark trouble ( which I have done many years back ) , there is absolutely nothing whatsoever we can do , this shitty behaviour is simply who they are , women are brainwashed to view men as lesser beings anyway , you are best to avoid bars / alcohol serving clubs as the ratio is around 70% male / 30% female anyway , so they get tons of attention & a target rich environment to shoot down men in droves. Forget these venues , unless you are something spectacular in their eyes , you have no chance. @Grumps , yes the UK is heavily feminazified , hence this shitty behaviour , you will likely agree with this post too , we've seen it all !!
Lol u also have education in law and they can reject and do there thing as long as they aren't harassing and physical... or cause trouble. Lol imagine walking up to them and saying no ma'am you must accept. Lmfao!
I dress ok and hit the gym 5-6 days/wk so im in descent shape
The most important thing is fun. Are you fun? Can you make a girl laugh?
How do u have fun with women? I've never really consistently had fun with women outside of a first date. I've been rejected by groups a lot too and tired of not being invited to parties, tired of rejection, not getting a job i like, being blown off my women i like, and meeting mean people who won't let me in their groups.
Whats being in good shape to u? A six pack, thats hard to get. That is being in extreme shape not good shape. Its something most men never have or have a hard time getting.
You don't sound like you have your life together yet. Maybe work on that first before looking for a woman? It will be easier that way too!
the economy, being fired 3 times in a yr, and lacking experience have made dating, getting help, and being happy next to impossible. Plus i hate the midwest and want to move west or douth but lack the funds to do so
yeah you need to get it together first before looking for a partner. You need to sort out your employment situation first, and were you fired or laid off? Big difference there... today is a great day to start a fresh!
i was fired 3 times in a yr
then you really gotta get it together before even trying to date someone, you can do it! work hard!
yes i do unfortunately :(
i think i could be a good place to meet a guy if women didn't go out in groups, liked to be approached other places, and were more approachable in general. I've asked a lot of women if theyve ever approached a guy they like, 95% have told me no. Most women have no idea how hard approaching is and u guys expect us to do it. Have u ever approached a guy u like?
From my experience, most women not just some women go out to bars not to meet men, which makes no sense.
Have u read what I said? Girls also go to bars in groups to have hang out not to meet guys. Because bars is not a good place to meet a stable man. And no, girls should be in groups because what if one fool tries to slip a drug in her drink and she has doesn't have a friend that will notice that. Or she gets tipsy and now she has to take a ride from a stranger.
Women use to go out to bars to meet men. So where do women wxpect men to approach them, meet them, and date them? And dont say online dating, thats a living nightmare. Do women get off on rejecting men?
😂 anywhere really, somewhere that doesn't include alcohol and a large number of guys that only want a night stand. And no! We don't like rejecting guys, we know is hard on u guys. But is not like we are going to accept a date from a complete stranger either. Better safe than sorry
I've actually tried taking my life 3 times over consistent female rejection. Im tired of it and wish women would change and be nicer. Most aren't friendly, approachable, or datable. This is my experence and i believe i was born in the wrong time period. Today, women only date 3 types, social a-holes, rich, and attractive men. Women dont date average or below average men. Most spend their lives getting sex, dates, or something serious that leads to marriage. How would u recommend i fix this?
Well ok, u can complain about it. That will solve things. And this isn't something I can answer because u have to be u, and not pretend to be someone else. And the girl falls for different types of guys. But u can not expect a girl will just owe u a date just because u approach them and then complain that the world is at fault
Being me isn't enough to attract a girl. So what should i do?
I know girls fall for different types of guys, i listed them: good looking, rich, or a social a-hole (nas-hole).
Im 6''3", bald, 31, weigh 198 lbs, and play beach vball, and in the gym 5-6 days/wk improving my figure to attract a girl. It hasn't worked and most of the time i approach a girl its been alone. Im lucky if i get 1 date a yr. I also currently get sex once a yr too. How is that fair? U say women dont want to be approached in bars yet they go out, want to be approached elsewhere but seem to not want me to approach them, and u say women dont owe me a date because i approach. Lets go back to what i said, men do all the approaching and deal with rejection. Rejection in and of itself can screw up a guy permanently and its something women just expect us to take and move on. It seems like women expect too much of men and dont want to change. Is this correct?
Oh please don't tell me u fall for those omg, if a girl fall for those then it means she is also that type of girl 😂 and I don't really care for physical description
U know no matter what I say, u already set ur mind on stone and firmly believed that "u were born in the wrong generation" so no matter what I say or anyone says u will only see the negative side of things and fall into a whole
i disagree withh the notion that people at clubs and bars are bad.the mentality might not be open and trusting but, people from all walks of life espeically if you're making money are at bars and clubsbroke people can't go out. at bars and clubs, you meet professionals
I think dating has always been hard. But no a days with all the competition, its a nightmare.
its even harder now that women get their needed dose of validation on social media. since 2007 and rise of feminism, its gotten 10 times worse than say 2002
Ur right about everything uve said about me. Im a mess and dont trust women these days and believe they have been corrupted by the media. But at the same time, i dont understand people, know how to approach women, or date women. Hence, my view of them is a negative one. Im also average, somewhat bald, and 6'3". Combined, im not seen by a lot of attracted women as good looking. So my online dating experience has been 0-3 messages/year from girls im attracted to. Other guys gets hundreds of messages and the girls hook up with them in person. Meanwhile, i cry myself to sleep a lot and get to read stories of sexually active people and people who are happy in relationships. I need someone to teach me social skills that i haven't learned and fix this permanently. Otherwise, im not gonna last much longer. I didn't come into this world to die alone, thats inhuman!!
If they dont know like me or want to talk to me, it would be helpful to tell me why so i can improve and learn from my mistakes. Its hard enough approaching women i dont know, its another thing entirely having to be blown off for just saying hi. Women in the past didn't act that mean as much so why do so many modern womrn act mean to men they dont like? Do u know how that affects us after u reject us?
Bro this post is more than a month old. Stop being a creep.
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I've done that a few times and the girl still left or find me attractive to date me long term.