I started to show interest while still overweight and she made it clear that she wasn't interested. It's about a year since I've seen her and I lost 30 lbs. She is now flirting with me and I'm really confused. I got over her but the feelings I had are starting to come back. But I also feel like she might be shallow. I dont know how to feel.
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I'd say no. The same thing happened with me. I'm still the same person as before. Actually it was him that motivated me to lose the weight. I wasn't even that fat either. I gained 20 pounds when I had an injury and I couldn't exercise. I met this guy and he said if I were a bit smaller he'd date me. I was worried I'd run into more guys like that, so I lost the weight. He was suddenly interested in me but I rejected him.1