Thanks for your advice.And what do you think of rich guys who work in the same company? I know lot of people tell it's not good to date coworker and all but I wonder...
Complicated if he's your boss, also check the company policies, some companies frown upon co worker relationships, other than that I'd say be careful with work place attraction, if you spend enough time with anyone you will find him/ her attractive, doesn't mean that you will remain attracted to them or they to you
I can still try. Not only boss have money but every people who work in high level.
They're not all big criminals XD
No, lol :D I meant in that particular place that I mentioned in Spain. It is well known for it. There is a lot of influence from the likes of the Russian mafia and there are both UK and Irish criminals out there.
Ah ok I misunderstand XD Is it true they are a lot of Russian and Italian mafia
Then he's stingy, a man like him doesn't interess me. He love his money much more than his wife...
That's why you need to be careful He loves is wife, he just didn't believe that buying expensive things means you love that person. She loves him too and he married her because she still fell in love with him even though he lived in a small house and had a old car. I don't know if you know this but when you truly love someone it doesn't matter how much money someone has.
For me it does. My parent, grandparent, friends, etc... always buy me things. (because they work and I can't see them a lot, because they want to spoil me, etc..) for me when you buy something this show your love to them. You gave them gift when you can't be with them everyday.
That's not love honestly.
And what's so? They're my parent, family of course they love me. They can't spend all their time with me, they have things to do so they buy me things. This is love. You don't spend money on someone you don't love.
When you said "For me it does. My parent, grandparent, friends, etc... always buy me things. (because they work and I can't see them a lot, because they want to spoil me, etc..) for me when you buy something this show your love to them." I wasn't talking about your family and parents.If I misread it, I apologize, but it sounds like you are saying that's why you want a rich man.That's why I said that's not love. My best friend dad bought his mom expensive clothing, jewelry, shoes, purses, perfume. Even my best friend wore expensive clothing for men and shoes. Found out his dad was cheating on his mom ever since he was 14 and they finally out when he was 19.
Not everyone are like that, the majority of people doesn't cheat.
That's why I think if a guy buys his girlfriend/wife expensive things.I personally don't think that means love.
I kmowWell I'm not telling you what to I know that everyone is different when it comes to being with someone.Just be careful because some rich guys can be jerks because they know majority women likes men for their money.
I know but that they're rich or poor they're the same amount of jerk
I have a job, this been 8 years I work and I make only 1100 per month so excuse me to think it's too little... I work hard but get paid nothing. Plus like I'm a girl I get paid 20 % less than men.
Ok XDWho are you to tell me how to live my life seriously This girls XD
antagonsistic? Really?Wow, sorry I told you what I think and not what you want to hear XD
If it been removed then I was right. Your comment was rude so stop complaining and whining like a baby.
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I have a job and I didn't get to college because I cannot paid it and where I live they aren't any college anyway. Even poor guys do that, this stereotype is kind of stupid. My father come from a rich family but he never cheat on my mother or any of his girlfriend.
You dont know that... lol.And if he really didn't, its probably because your mother got with him because she liked him, not because of the money.
I wouldn't be with someone if I didn't care about them either
your question doesn't seem to express that.
I ask where I can find a rich men, then I would get to know him and be with him if he like me and i like me.
so money first right? isn't that what i said?
I don't want to be poor all my life
so... go to school.. make something of yourself, get a good job, so you dont have to depend on someone elses money. you said your father didn't cheat on anyone he was with, but you aren't marrying your father now are you?
I don't have money to go to college. I don't even have a college near where i live anyway. The first college is like at 1h30 from my house so... Plus if I want to get a good education (a college who would get me a job who paid well) I must go to an expensive college which I would never be able to paid.It was an exemple. Would you have prefer if I used a friends as my exemple?
no.. wouldn't change the fact that you are an aspiring gold digger. and if the nearest college is an hour and a half away... thats even close. college is not supposed to be convenient for you... it takes work. you have to do work... which includes commuting TO and FROM the college in order to make something out of YOURself. Rather than search for someone who already did their work. you might as well be a prostitute...oh wait... i said that already loljust setting yourself up to be treated like shit because that is what is gonna happen.
That's not close at all... If I was getting to college I must have take an appartement near it but I don't have money for paid for an appartement, food, study stuff and all for me.So this wouldn't change for what I'm treated right now...
so who is treating you like shit now?
My boss, people in my job. Boss keep screaming and critic and coworker are just being hypocritical.
... time for a new one.
I can't, I try to find another job but I can't find one. I don't have a car since I do not have enough money for pay it
i see you are stuck, but that is why there is this thing called hustling. do what you HAVE to do to get where you want to be. Believe it or not, i was homeless before, yep i said it. and unlike girls i didn't have a ton of options. But i put my head down, and guess what the first thing i did was? College.
Blablabla I'm not from america it's a lot more difficult in Europe than in the us
You really think so huh? cuz from what I've heard, its not easy in either place.
In Europe it's a lot worse. We're near implosion honestly.
Yet some of the best schools are there. Like i said, if you want that, go for it, just telling you what to expect and how to get there.
Are you kiding me? Do you know how much cost a good school? or in which country they're?
I know how much it costs to go to a "good" school. I went to a public one and i know how much that cost. Im still paying it off. i just find it disappointing that rather than hustle, you just want the easy way out, even more disappointed because its most likely going to happen. Hell, even you knew that your idea/question is not the right way, thats why you won't post as yourself. You know you'll be branded. Stuff is difficult, i know, and if we all find an easy way out, we'll all take it. Hell, if i found a rich woman, you think i wouldn't go for it? But the point im trying to make is... rather than waste all that time Searching for the easy way out, you should use that Time to see if you can make things better for Yourself as a person. If I spent my time searching for some rich sugar mama, i'd probably still be broke and homeless. Unlike females, guys don't really have the option of looking for someone rich, and the smart ones dont go for girls who just want money.
Guys who has money are far from being the more intelligent you know. Some are but a lot are as dumb as me or any other people here.
Oh i know, my dad has money and im broke as shit, but he didn't even make it half way through high school. There are 3 kinds of smarts, book smart, street smart, and nook smart. if you have all 3 you could do whatever, doesn't mean you will be rich, but you will at least survive.Yes, i know that not everyone that has money is intelligent, i mean, look at Justin Bieber... but in some way... SOME way, they were smart enough to take an opportunity. Thats what you need to do.
Even with doctor and guys who work in commerce?
Doctors aren't so wealthy.. but even there, you have that sort of competition!!!
They are, in my country at least they make so much money.
Which country are you in, anonymous?
Starting salaries for engineers of 6-figures means a high cost of living area, which negates the apparent high salary.Engineers do not become rich by staying engineers. I should know.
@WalterRadio engineers does earn lot of money even at the beginning. Even if they stay engineers.
"engineers does earn lot of money even at the beginning"Relatively speaking, compared to Early Childhood Development majors, sure. My BS and MS degrees are in engineering. I also have had as many as 80 working for me and am currently hiring. Engineers do not typically "make a lot". It is a good career, for sure. It is also the most common undergraduate major of Fortune 500 CEOs.See, "a lot" starts at about $300,000 per year. There are a few exceptions in Silicon Valley, but engineers that make that much are not doing engineering any more.
@WalterRadio A lot in my country means more than 24 000 a years. In Europe we earn a lot less than what American earn. So enginners does earn really lots of money by our standard.
If dollars or Euros, that is poor. Pounds, lower middle class.The question is about finding a "rich man". That does not mean someone who can just afford a house and a car. Rich goes beyond that.
@WalterRadio No, this is really rich. In my house we're 5 and earn around 2500. So if he earn 2000 / 3000 per month that's rich. You can live very well with it.
Living well is not the same as rich. They are very different things.Do you have an airplane? Or maybe a yacht? How many houses do you have? How much was the last car you bought?My answers are Yes, no, 4, and $90,000. And I have three cars.The question is how to find a "rich man", not how to find someone who lives well.
@WalterRadio This is my question so I'm the one who decide the meaning of it.
Then use the appropriate words, because the answers are different."How do I find/marry a man who can make a good income?"
@WalterRadio I didn't think the meaning rich was so different from a country to another but I would keep it in mind
The meaning isn't different, but it sounds like you have never met anyone who actually is rich.Many countries have a bigger gap between ordinary people and rich people.
I have good gene so I think it's ok, I'm 24 but still look the same as when I was 15 so I think it's ok.
I don't doubt your genes, I'm just saying make yourself more valuable by brining more to the table. You will make all of the other guys envy your man and all of the women want to be you.
I wouldn't. I will act like a nice girl and treat him well. I just want him to buy me things when I'm his girlfriend.
You want a man purely for his money, That makes you a gold digger mate.
So if I'm treating him good? I would treat him better than all other girl and don't go out every night at club letting him with disgusting freezing food.
It dosent matter if you're treating him good, You're only treating him good because you want his money, What part are you missing?You would actually rather date a rich asshole then an incredible less wealthy guy? Thats fucked up.
I prefer date a rich man than a poor man. Even if you have love and he treat me right if we always have no money in the end of the month, can't do anything, can't buy anything and die at work at 80 because we doesn't have enough money to get retired then yes I prefer the rich man.I have people who love me, the only things i need now is money for buying expensive things.I also would be a much better spouse than the majority of girls.
Im not going to lie, Personally i think your mentality on relationships is disgusting. You're the literal definition of a Gold Digger, A Desperate one at that.And i really can't even be bothered trying to help you be a gold digger by telling you what rich guys like, Because quite frankly, I think they deserve a woman who loves them and not just someone wanting to reach into their pocket.
For me love come with time, the more time you spend with someone, etc...This is what I call real love. You don't get love only by going to some date or by being a sex friends.People become a couple for a reason, they need something the other have and they don't.Like he need someone to clean his house, cook for him or simply just to get laid every night. relationship are based on common interest. That's all. Love and care come after.
The words of a true gold digger.
You're a sad and desperate case. Want more money? How about earn it yourself through effort and dedication.
@Kit_Kat88 I work since Im 16 and I only earn 1100 even though I work hard. having a job is hard and keep it too so I really can't dream of having any better soon. I also don't want to work until I'm 80...
Try to climb the latter.
That's life, no one likes working but you gotta do it.You can dream of such rich person solving all your issues all you want but it's not going to happen.All the millionaire men are busy fucking Swiss models and shit, why would they be interested in normal women who only want them for there money?
"I just want him to buy me things when I'm his girlfriend."Ha, ha.. Then you should PM me. I once bought my girlfriend a car. Well, she was an actress too, so don't get your hopes too high.
@Kit_Kat88 I can't since I'm not graduated from college. Plus when you begin at a work you cannot change unless you are able to find another place (which is not possible for me since I have no degree)
@WalterRadio I don't ask him to be millionaire of anything just enough money for me to be able to stop my stupid work and have some gift sometime. I never asked for a car...
No, I do it with only one men not a lot of men like prostitute. Money is really important for me. I can't buy the things I want even if I work a lot and it really bother me.
😂 but guess what, in the end of the journey, no one leaves this 'realm' with money. U leave empty, with nothing, nada. Just become a prostitude that way u can get money, but no love, no hug, no true kiss, no affection, no time, no dedication. Just money
Who tell you rich man can't love? They can, they just have money in more
😂 but u will not love him or stay with him if he suddenly turn bankrupt. He could love u thinking, "she loves me not only for my money" but as soon as the news hit u. U will cry and leave him sayin. "no money. No love" and u will prostirude ur way to another rich man's pants
Besides rich people tend to stay with their own high social status. The only way rich men date 'normal' people is if they are creepy, with no game and buy a date, from shallow minded people like u.
Men don't date only in their level they just want to date a pretty and skinny girl who dress well
But will u stay with him, if his business went bankrupt? I don't think so. Ur too shallow minded.
Depend, if he stay poor all his life or if he work to having money back.
Too shallow, and this is why they won't date u or marry u. Because they are aware of FAKE people like u, that only wants them for their money. So u have better chance dating a flying cat than a rich man
Everyone one like me I'm a nice girl. I have an innocent appearance.
Yet a shallow heart that didn't learn the right values. U know, go ruin ur life with prostituing yourself. In the end, u will know that money wasn't everything
I would always have my family who love me so...
Your family who love you enough to never bother seeing you or showing what REAL love is like? Prefering to instead ruin you with gifts that have led to you being unhappy with your lot in life when there are people who would KILL for what you have.That isn't love.Thats stupidity.If gifts were love then I could say my mother loves me, but her actions dont show this.If gifts were love then I could say my brother hates my guts, but he doesn't. If gifts were love then I could say my younger siblings didn't love me, but theyre too young to go shopping and its their mother who hates me. I know how much they love me.Things do not represent love.Love represents love and I think youve just never had the chance to feel it.
@BaileyisDarcy So how I can feel it? because even though I care about some people I never loved any man truly. I just care about them but things nothing else.
@BaileyisDarcy I only feel dependent to people who take care of me and protect me and became jealous if they give attention to anyone who aren't me
If I can be millionaire just like that I would have doing it a long time ago
You won't find a rich man dear... unless you're Paris hilton
Even a doctor or things like that?
lol doctors don't want to marry a loser. No offense. They want a smart girl who won't spend their money while he works hard.
And enginners, men who work in commercial, there's a lot of work who they get a good salary
And If I'm poor pretty, skinny and can cook?
Pretty and skinny works for me. :)
@WalterRadio That's cool :)
I don't even try, I'm asking because I don't know what to do and where to find one
How about you find a guy for his personality instead of being a gold digger.
I like when a man buy me things and I like fancy restaurant so I don't have much choice. I don't want to life all my life poor and only dreaming of things I want without even see it in real.
Then go work for your own money and stop being shallow.
Yes, you have a choice... go to school, get an education, and pursue a career... work hard and you will be able to eat at any restaurant you want! If you choose money over love, you don't deserve a man anyway...
I can't, my parent doesn't have money to pay me for going to a college or any things like that, I work since I'm 16, I'm 24 now and still poor. I get paid 1100. So tell me how can I buy things I want. I still live with my parent because i don't have enough money.
and which kind of things do you want to be paid for by the guy?
I want to buy me expensive clothes, bags, shoes, jewelry, diner and I will take care of him, support him, cook for him, etc...(Being a good wife and the majority of girls can't even cook good some pasta anymore).
Haha, sounds great! I'd have no problem with that.Why do you want him to buy you expensive clothes and jewelry? Why not settle for average things?
That's good :)Because i like that and with my little salary I can only dream of those things and i really want it.What's average things for you?
What do you do for a living?Well, with average things I mean him buying you 30$ dinner instead of spending $300 at a fancy restaurant or him buying you a $50 necklace instead of a $5000 one. Why does the price tag matter to you?
I'm a secretary.Because food is a lot better in a fancy restaurant.The price of the necklace himself doesn't really matter but the quality does. I like diamant, gold and all those things and this things are expensive.The price also show his love for me.When I was young I never saw my father and for it. he was buying me a lot of things for showing that he love me because we cannot do anything with me or pass time with me.
Oh I see :) So with your father money and expensive gifts became a substitute for love, so that's what you are used to now?
Yes, that's it you understand it all :)I can only know someone care / love me if he buy me things. Even my friends buy me things. When I was in high school everytime we had a free period she would buy me food, drink, candy
So what would be a perfect first date for you?
He come pick me up, buy me flower, we go to an expensive restaurant (where I can eat what I want) and he drive me home. At the end of the date I will thanks him and if I feel comfortable enough give him a kiss on the cheek, said goodbye and goodnight.I don't except him to buy me a gift on the first date.
That sounds like a completely normal first date to me. Do guys in Belgium not do that?What if he bought you a gift on the first date?
Not really usually it's just a drink, some will split, some would paid it depend on the guys.I would be really happy, it show that he like me enough to spend time searching a good gift for me.
A couple of tips:1) Smile at guys in expensive cars2) Don't go out with them again if they don't pay for you3) Tell them you love how much they spoil you4) Pretend to feel bad about how much money they spend on youlol
So? It's my life. I want to buy expensive things so I need money and I also like it when a man buy me things
Ok, sure. Go marry a rich man, I could careless. Just make sure your making a wise decision.
It's better than staying poor all my life and die at work because I don't have enough money for stopping working at 80.
So do you have some advice for me?
Is being pretty, skinny and dress feminine / chic enough?
I admire the simplicity of this answer
They are paid about 41% more, than any other state, for the same type of jobs
Wow This is really a big gap but I'm not from the us so
Well, then it's time to move, lol