Why is it I can't keep an open eye for multiple women?

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Why is it I get tunnel vision with the women I'm interested in like I believe it's why I'm not successful at dating. I typically only crush on one girl at a time and the feelings always get pretty intense to the point where I feel devastated either she rejects me or I find out she has a boyfriend. Most other guys don't have this problem because as soon as they get rejected they quickly move on to the other options so are some guys just wired this way
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Why is it I can't keep an open eye for multiple women?
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