Why is it I get tunnel vision with the women I'm interested in like I believe it's why I'm not successful at dating. I typically only crush on one girl at a time and the feelings always get pretty intense to the point where I feel devastated either she rejects me or I find out she has a boyfriend. Most other guys don't have this problem because as soon as they get rejected they quickly move on to the other options so are some guys just wired this way
Why is it I can't keep an open eye for multiple women?
What Girls Said 2
in a way, that's a good thing. because when you do finally get in a relationship you most likely won't have that problem. to me as a girl, there's nothing more relieving than a guy who has eyes only for me- i don't have to worry about him seeking out other women haha.2
What Guys Said 2
It's normal and if you do keep your eyes open all the time it will never feel special when a girl does say yes. You just have to limit the damage by not falling for a girl to quickly: first find out if she has a boyfriend and could even be remotely interested in you.0
Dude can we switch? I have a hard time keeping my options *closed.*0
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