I just feel ugly and undesirable when I try to use them... and I totally understand the chemistry side of things which makes me even more uninterested because I don't care how attractive someone is - if we have no chemistry nothing is going to happen.
maybe your trying too hard don't feel ugly and undesirable because they're on the same site as you are but it's pressure... talking to a guy on dating site is pressure... keep it light try and be funny and not so serious... being serious is scary for a girl... i mean don't be clown but keep it light find out about her what she likes that's what a dating site is for to find someone who like what you like and on down the line.. a lot of girls don't care about looks per se anyway a lot are looking for a nice guy they might find you safe to date if your not too goodlooking because a lot of girls fear a player you seem like a nice gentle and caring guy so you should do okay if your really that sensitive but you may be a little too serious which is fine but you might be scaring girls away because of it
100 years of wisdom is where it's at, these bitches are missing out! If you were my great grandpa we would pimp it hard in the real world 🌎
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I know bro, I know... you gotta pimp it in the real world, that online shit is too slow and stagnant better off just going out there on the weekends to clubs with your friends.
most of the time guys won't find anyone bevause they want the super hot girls and don't want the average girls who go for them
Dude, Some of us blind swipe right until we max out and still don't even get a match... I've done it before plenty of times, it just feel disheartening and hopeless.
Just set your standards at least 2 points lower on the 1-10 scale than your own rating or what you could get offline, and don't be too fuzzy about her having 3 different baby daddies, 50 pounds too many and bipolar disorder, and then go through 100 of these before one agrees to go out with you.Oh the joys of online dating... I'm sure missing out on so much by not staying away from it all...
Honestly I feel you I do the same on the blind swipe right xDEventually you'll find someone man. It might take girls getting to know your personality tho. I didn't think my ex boyfriends looks were anything special until I got to know him
*by staying away from it all...*
yeah I understand why you stay away from it! Things are so complicated with social media it seems these days
It's very rare below age 35 and usually requires some severe stretching of the definition of "success".
None of my friends have much success with it, so...
just keep trying is all i can say for everyone
It's still frustrating though
life is difficult, but if there is something you want, ain't nothing to it but to do it.
Sometimes I blind swipe until I max out! Don't give the "being too picky" rhetoric because that's not the case.
I dont know what your problem is then. I'm getting matches, I would be happy if I could call myself average. Maybe your profile sucks lol.
I don't believe in those stereotypes... but the clubs are the best bet if your online game is shit. At least it's face to face.
I see old man that are ugly looking and nice young hot girls all the time together
Dude, you're iron man - take them from them, just out game them, I believe in you!
Lol I'm not the guy that has the problem, I'm not talking about me, I'm talking about your situation
Oh... okay... well... I guess I'll take them from them than. Yeah that's what I'll do!
Just be yourself and find a good girl that like you for who you are and not how much money you have and I'm sure you'll find a nice decently girl one day. Just bring a lot of good personality to the table
Correction, the ones that do I just don't want... and that rare occasion that I find someone I want that wants me, shit goes south fast bruhhh.
Brah I gotchaSo u want a hot chick who's hotter than uI'm doin an internship at a pharmaceutical companyWe got plenty of chloroform Lyin aroundWill get you some op
Bruh... you a tru GLike you know what I mean like nobody knows what I mean - ya feel me?But in all honesty I just want someone I can connect with and actually find sexually attractive... who wouldn't fuck me over and cheat on me and all that other rancid shit that people seem to do these days.
Nah bruv I gotcha I feel thatThere's a lotta pussies out there who would do shitYou gotta watch out for urself in this dating world which is complete shit