Asker, if I was you I'd have dumped him after the first date for letting you pay. Have you brought it up with him? Have you considered letting him know that you expect him to pay?
He's an artist from Latin America, but I'm sure men there pay too. He really likes me and even got the flu for doing something for me, but I've never experienced this. I feel bad for feeling this way, but even the scummiest guys paid. Definitely won't mention it to him though, but thanks for siding with me. Im shocked by everyone else's response too.
Are you from the US, if I may ask? If so, which part? I'm from Europe and here it's definitely expected that men pay and I know for a fact that it's the same in Latin America.You should definitely NOT feel bad for expecting him to pay.If you don't want to mention it to him, you could try "forgetting" your wallet at home. See if he picks up the bill or acts weird.
I am from the US , yes.
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So all a girl needs to do is go out with you for two free meals and then move on to the next sucker? Don't be that guy and split the bill on the first date.
Okay. It's just that On all of my early stage dates the guy pays, even the cashier/waiter tonight reacted funny to it.
People are stuck in the past. True equality means giving the other person the same right.
If someone wants you to pay for them would you want them to just expect it or ask.