Me and my boyfriend and both 18 and we have been dating for 5 months now, and we keep talking about sex and how we plan to do it in the future. The only problem is that not too long ago i was diagnosed with a disease that caused things that look like pimples, but aren't, to appear on my upper thigh, they come and go, and I'm getting surgery soon, but its not a guarantee that it will never happen again. They look weird and I don't know whether or not to tell my boyfriend or just break up, and is it disgusting.
Most Helpful Guy
wait what? lets start over
you have a boyfriend
you have a disease
you want to break up with your boyfriend
so how are these two things related? im so lost lol2
Most Helpful Girl
So you're embarrassed by the disease.. think he'll be disgusted and leave so you want to leave first.
I get the logic problem is, what about hte next boyfriend, or the one after that, or the one after that?
I mean, sooner or later you'll have to acknowledge these marks you have. I mean I think you should read up on it more, even if you think you know everything, just have answers! Because he'll probably want to ask questions (especially - what is it, will I catch it, how'd you get it etc).
But no, I think that's a bit silly to break up with him. Just be honest. If he loves your personality something like that on your thigh shouldn't bother him.0