So I met this guy and we have been talking everyday and we are supposed to go out in a few days. Well he is smart, cute, fubny, has same values and interests, but a few things really bug Me. For one, he dips (tobacco), and he makes remarks about being drunk and stuff. I don't thin he drinks a lot but he acts like its cool. and also he is dropping college Togo into construction, which is fine, but it makes me feel like he isn't trying? I also have issues with getting close to people so I don't know if I'm just looking for issues to justify canceling the date or if I should.