I agree but there should be no drama if it's a date not a relationship. I further this by saying I also think the only option was to leave (thank you Uber) as a means of saving face. Lord do I remember dating an older guy when I was 16, him being my ride and aggressively flirting with his ex. I knew no one at the party and was in the middle of no where. Want to talk about embarrassing?The only ride offers I got from 'guys' was if I put out. Luckily there was a sober female upperclassmen who took me under her wing and gave me a ride and a lecture. At the time I hated the lecture but I know now she is right. I given that same lecture but more kindly to younger women. It was a trap.
He didn't he begged me to stay and dropped me home
He said the girl spoke to him because she was having a argument
Dude whatever actions speak louder than words. You were on a date with a guy you just met. If I were in your shoes and he told me, his date, that chick is hot, I'd smile laugh or whatever, finish the date and then be done with him. I sure as fuck wouldn't be hangin around for a ride home after I return to see him engaging with her. That's what Uber is for. You can buy his crappy story and take however many more months or years of this behavior that you like or just do the smart thing and keep dating until you find someone whose attention you can hold. This guy isn't into you. I mean sure he'll date you, you'll do for however many months until he finds someone he is really into. Or even years. Guys don't think like women. They'll take whatever low hanging fruit they can occupy themselves with until they find something better. Don't invest yoourself in this.
I don't like him anyway , and I've known him years. I'm not taking his crappy story because I don't even like him I just wondered if I went abit over the top that's all. He can do what he wants
To be honest I'm actually really good looking so I doubt he will find better anyway and the girl was defiantly not better either
Oh hon' I didn't mean to imply you were the problem. Some men simply can't make a relationship work (same goes for women) and sometimes others maybe can but not at that moment because they just got out of a LTR or whatever. My advice stands though should you ever find yourself in this position again. Dating can be brutal and the last thing I want to do when on a date is crush the person I'm out with by skipping out or cutting it short mid meal or something unless his behavior justifies it. Saying that girls hot as your guy did would lead me to be like yep not a keeper. But I'd be polite and finish the date probably by saying it was nice getting to know you. But the chatting up the girl thing is my free exit pass. Whether a date is going well or poorly, if you do politely end the date with a let's do this again or nice to meet you and the dude won't take it- RUN. he either is just trying to sleep with you or is codependent.
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