Well I went out with a few of my friends, I will admit that I can tend to appear closed off and reserved. My friends sometimes catch me folding my arms or with my hands in the pockets despite all of us going out to have fun. I just unconsciously do it to feel more comfortable. Then again when I see my friends with a lot of girls going after them and so forth and not really saying much to me (I don't feel like I am uglier then any of them). I should also say that I can sometimes be very oblivious and pass things off as just being friends. So my thing is I don't know what the problem is, why girls won't really approach me or anything like that. Just need some advice.