Why am I always seem as a sex object and not relationship material?

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If I were to describe my physical appearance I would say BBW but not to extreme like just entering the plus size side.. actually trying to leave it again but anyway
proportioned.
5'6
black girl
some booty (with what we see today I don't know what's consider small or big so in between)
nice legs
Nice smile
dark brown eyes (black lol) with an almond shape
Lot of personality (don't think it's relevant because they never stick around for it)

I've actually had guys say why aren't you married and I have to say I don't know because I can't even get a real conversation going. It's one conversation of personal interests... barely... then it's what do I like to do for fun and if I say I don't know because I genuinely don't I'm a homebody then it's always "let me come over and we can figure that out ;)"
Why am I always seem as a sex object and not relationship material?
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