What do you mean
When word eventually comes what do you think it means? It means a delay that may be a positive or negative to you. You see if you go on believing that tomorrow would bless you with what you wished for ( a happy dating ) , then am sorry it is known as self deluding. What I meant... Be prepare for series of break ups and patch ups. After all Why would I risk the other person isn't very sure about what he wants. Read between the lines and you will be able to track down their thoughts. never mind.
So even if the guy I'm talking told me himself he likes me & we're both going to talk like eventually dating means he's not sure of me?
Yes. He isn't very certain or sure about you being a romantic partner of his. You talked with him right and you both agreed that you will date in near future. I dont know the guy perhaps he is actually thinking whether to date you or not. Since you talked and if he was really that interested in you he would have been already dated with you and you won't have asked a question here , It actually means you are yourself not sure about his intentions or his words. Anyhow... people have circumstances , if he dates you sooner or later and things go well then good for you otherwise the first break up in long run would clear all doubts if that happens, Dont wait to move on. For time being let the things go on.
Thanks I definitely agree with everything you said. We started talking like one or two weeks ago & he takes things really slow (as he said he likes to do) but its annoying to me he's not like other guys that aim straight to dating if they liked me ugh :/
The guy that I'm talking to said that after talking a lot eventually we will date he's been nice and wow he's letting me down...
He could very well be telling the truth; I couldn't say.Personally, though, I went through a few years of a girl saying that to me. Eventually she decided that she liked having me as a friend so much, she couldn't risk dating me. So she ended up dating someone else.Needless to say, it was incredibly painful, and she lost me as a friend. Maybe that makes me an asshole, but I couldn't continue seeing her after the way that felt. I especially couldn't see her with another guy.Ever since then, that phrase has become a special kind of Hell, for me. I will admit that I am completely biased against that. I'm sorry.
Sorry everyone is saying I'm wasting my time I'm gonna have to block him then
I'm sorry it's not what you wanted to hear; I really am. :(If we're right though, it will save you a lot of heartache later.
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He prolly likes you as a person.. Just ya know.. Not more than a friend.
Even if the gut you've been talking to said that to you & he says he likes you?
Like can mean a lot of things.Have you done anything sexual, what is your relationship to him? Eventually is a broad term, how long are you willing to wait?
Well we started talking a week ago or so. He said that he liked me and no we haven't done anything sexual. He told me himself he doesn't want to rush things icase I reject him. But I'm not willing to wait long.
A week is not a long time, you are still getting to know each other I guess. Use the time to get to know him and talk to him about how you feel about "eventually" and why he thinks you'll reject him?
So he doesn't like me wow he's not like the other guys I've met they went straight forward asking me out but this one takes things slower ugh :/
He doesn't like you? Didn't he say that he did? Maybe there is a reason for him wanting to take things slow? Talk to him.