also is there an official way to ask and find out, hey are we boyfriend and girlfriend now
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just don't make it lunch, lunch = friend zone. and also you want to make it clear to her that it is a date (none of those tricks or ambiguous "hangouts"). probably you can say hey do you want to go out (insert weekday here) night? because I really want to take you to (my favorite restaurant/see this movie/go to this concert). hope this helps!