That interesting right there. In fact I did ask female friends out but they rejected me just look at me as friend zone I hate that term but I have to deal with it in my life. It true story
lol I wish you could be a man for a day.
Ask them out before you're considered friends. Perhaps after few week of knowing them. That's how I did it with guys and it worked with all of them so far.
@dedguy exactly that what I am trying say to women but they don't listen it
@dedguy what would that change?
Easy for u to ask men out cuz they are not use to get ask out by girls. im just saying
Still, I always went out with guys when they asked me. Simply because they took all their courage and it would be straight out rude to say no.
Then u are rarely woman not many women accept date ask out by guys friends
Maybe you do ask guys out but I'm willing to bet your in a very low percentile. I'm 30 years old and I've only had 1 woman go for me and I only got her to go out with me because she was my friends gfs boyfriend and her boyfriend told me she was interested otherwise I would never have got her #. We went on two dates and my friend and her boyfriend broke up so she stopped talking to me it pissed me off that she ended up being into me just cause I was friends with her friend and not because of who I was it kinda took a toll on my thoughts of dating once again. So I don't try anymore because I'm so busy just trying to scrape by through life I have no time to deal with the emotions involved with dating. Girls can pretty much get a date any day any time but guys have to fit a very conventional list on top of having decent looks. I know all the girls are going to disagree but it's true so whatever think what you want.
@dedguy I feel u bro I agree with u
But thanks for being one of those rare open minded types.
I looked at what I wrote lol all backwards but you get the point I think.
replace boyfriend with best friend it auto corrected.
@dedguy that's horrible. Sorry to hear that. Yes, girls also go for looks. Of course I'd prefer personality over looks anytime but there should still be attraction. I think it's not particularly nice to not go out with somebody when they ask you. Just give them a chance!
Yeah for me I'm not worried about how I look I have been with beautiful girls, chubby girls, not as pretty girls, etc. It's not my personal looks that kill my confidence it's being poor and 30 years old with nothing to show, yet working full time 55hrs a week and having nothing. I just have bad luck, I paid off my last truck like 2 days before my birthday and totalled it the day before my birthday and I didn't have full coverage cause I had a dui in
2012 so I couldn't afford it so I had to get another payment. I rent a room from a family friend so Utsav wiered to bring girls around, my company won't give me a pay increase and the line of work I'm in is the most dangerous in America and I don't make shit, I've gone to other companies, I've traveled, none of it works! All I ever wanted was a family of my own and a home of my own but i just can't seem to get there. I feel like i have nothing to offer more than my heart and soul but most woman put that stuff next to money and I don't have money. So I just don't try anymore.
@dedguy actually the man and his persobality are more important but naturally, women eould go for men who can afford a decent life. To me personally, a man doesn't have to be rich and swim in money but together we should at least be able to pay our living. Do you get me? He wouldn't have to be able to pay a house and a car and a new iPhone every year but together we should be able to rent at least a flat, have enough to eat and at least heating, electricity and water. That's all i really need in life, everything on top of that (e. g. Internet, TV etc.) would be nice but not a requirement. If he is the right guy for me and I know it, I can live without certain luxuries.
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At least women get dates and appreciate them
Hmm... take your time (over a month) and meet a woman. And tell her what you want exactly. She won't play with you.. i mean , guys usually tell women what she wants to date or just have one night sex.. but.. if you really want the right one, just tell her who you are , what you want, what's the most important to you...
I did the bigger problem is my deafness make women go away
Man... im sorry... but you're young... still have much time... do not rush.. women are everywhere. .
I'm not getting younger I'm 28 never have relationships in my life. If I'm 18 I don't care about it but now I'm 28 I care
That's why i told you take your time.. if you don't wanna ruin your relationship, don't rush it. Communicate more with women. Its not important how many guys they met.. the important thing is whether she is the right one or not. You're grown up.. 28? Still young.. next time you meet somebody, first, listen to her. Second tell about you (not too much.. too much info makes her bored)
Yes I did I tried to give her as gentleman but it not work so far. I listen to them trust me. Maybe I'm bored or uninteresting or ugly
Hmm... are you ugly? I mean your look.. if my question made you feel uncomfortable, im sorry. But you told me you did the best... the last thing left on you is your appearance. .. are you?
Yes I'm very ugly trust me they care about looks
Damn... sorry... but you still have a hope... don't give up.
Try to in man shoes for a day u will see why we did that
... you know... America is big. You'll get a girlfriend someday. . And I'll try it whatever you said
It didn't matter if America is big we still get rejected anyway. Only women have to choose one man out of 20
Try to be positive. Im a bit negative n skeptical too... but if i wanna have a boyfriend or wanna meet someone, i would change.. i know this is not easy but i mean... your negative aspect makes you hate women more... not all women are hoe or play girl.. there are a lot of good ; faithful loyal women out there. Do you really want to have a girlfriend or not? If so, why you so negative?
When u get rejection a lot I don't know how many I get. It make u more bitter and negative. That why I said try to be in man shoes u will understand why men are bitter when u get rejection no matter what how u act gentleman toward women
Ok... anyway... hope you have a good day...
i feel bad for guys lol
Thank u for the truth. Most women say we have harder dating too really? At least u get approach once or twice every day and men rarely get approach
taytay is very pretty and she is pretty nice as a person aswell. She has responded to a few of my posts in the past she is genuine and doesn't know it though lol.
@dedguy lol yea she is
aw thank you guys! you are too sweet:)