actually I got my answer thank you for your reply
I don't get in into one. I have fallen 3 times
Like you've fallen in love with a girl and she doesn't love you back, but loves another girl who loves you? What's going on? If this has happened more than once, I'd suggest you define your relationships early on so that there isn't any confusion from the other party. If a girl doesn't know you love her, she is free to love someone else. You may need to communicate your intentions and feelings more effectively Or are you falling for a girl who already has a boyfriend? I'd suggest you not let yourself become romantically attracted to taken individuals
yeah actually the thing is I have been loving a girl recently and again some girl out nowhere starts to show interest in me and then the i girl I love sees me with her and gets the wrong impression.
after many times of convincing, she is still Not convinced deep down. the girl who is playing with me knows I am with somebody but is very adamant and never stops even I told her not to flirt with me
You should never have to convince your partner you are not cheating because they should have enough trust and faith in you to realize you would never do that. Maybe you're going after girls with trust issues, but it's probably something about your behavior that is causing these girls to not believe youI don't know how long you're in these relationships before it starts happening, but you need to make it clearer that you believe strictly I'm monogamy and aren't interested in bringing anyone else into your life when you're with a girl. You need to make her feel like your love and affection are only geared towards herAs for girls coming onto taken guys, this is something you will always have a problem with. Girls get jealous of what others girls have and see you as a guy worthy of female affection and also as somewhat stable. When you see a girl coming onto you, then you need to warn your girlfriend before she thinks you're cheating on her
okay thank you for your advice. actually the latest girl I am loving is still Not in relationship with me.
her friends told me that I am a player and in fact I never even kissed a girl in my life
and also if I am a shallow person, my guy friends say that the girl coming on to me is way hotter than the girl I am chasing
There's your problem. If you aren't in a relationship with a girl, you can expect her to expect any loyalty from you. You're not really in a love triangle. A love triangle is complex and confusing and develops after a certain amount of time. You're just getting cock blocked by some random random hot chickYou need to make your feelings known to a girl before you fall in love with her. You can't sit on the sidelines and then complain that you're not in the game. You have to try out for the team first.
How would her friends know anything about you if you aren't even a part of each other's lives? They're coming up with assumptions that you can't disprove because neither one of you has a basis when it comes to communication or understanding the other's life
oh ok but my previous 2 incidents were in long term relationships. one in which a girl even after knowing that I have a girlfriend came on to me and ruined the relationship somehow. the second one was where my girlfriend was playing with my friend and kept him believing that after she broke up with me she would be his girlfriend.
yeah you maybe right on the current one
so should I go for the girl who likes me or the other one?
You should always go for a girl who likes you. If the girl you "love" doesn't want to be with you, then move on. If there's a hot chick who likes you and you like her back, then go for her. Your main issue might be that you come off as the player type. You need to have better boundaries when it comes to girls trying to hit in you as well as making sure your girlfriend trusts you enough to know you won't cheat on her. Don't flirt with or look at girls who aren't your girlfriend. Don't give them your number or "friend" them on facebook. Keep your distance
yes I hope that I am not late. I will ask her out then. once again really thank you for your help.
You're welcome. And definitely don't give up on girls just because you've had a few bad experiences with them. EVERYONE has had bad experiences with members of both genders. It's either give up on humanity in general or take it in stride. Moping around about women will only make you less attractive
yes I will be optimistic from now onwards.
if you don't mind, can we chat on Kik for future chats?
I don't know what Kik is. LOL. I don't have any social media, but you can message me here anytime if you need to.
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it's not just one incident. there are 3 incidents and I have given up on dating girls.
it's difficult to provide background for 3 times actually.