After our first date he contacted me 3 days later and initiated a few conversation a week later. So he texted me first 2 times after our date but after that he kinda vanishes lol. I 've noticed that I kinda took long to reply to his text most of the time but , because i was pretty busy and stressed with my finals so I'm afraid i didn't show enough interest? . Or he just wasn't interested in me in the first place. Would a guy text the girl after the first date if they are not interested?