When do you ask someone what they're looking for?

teawrecks
I've been talking to this dude for 3-4 days now, kinda getting to know one another. Have sent each other like legit nudes once in that time.

i know he's attracted to me, obviously.

But i don't know if he's just looking for a hook up or something more eventually.

problem is I catch quick, so if he's just looking for a hook up I need to stop learning about who he is as a person. I just don't know how or if I should ask him what he's looking for...
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+1 y
Yo for simple minded people who think relationships can't happen after nudes have been exchanged - they can, and it has happened for me before.

Try using a different argument 😌 That one is a failure. 😌😌
When do you ask someone what they're looking for?
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