I think it'd be cute if a girl sent me a bunch of messages I think that would show she's excited and interested in talking to me. But as long as it's not excessive like 20 in a row that are multiple paragraphs with a million thoughts on one particular thing that she sends multiple times throughout the day.
What you described is not "too clingy" but yes it does exist. Getting upset after sending 3/4 messages and not getting a reply even though you know he is working, constantly texting and calling to find out where he is, demanding he always cancel plans when you are free, stuff like that.
I concur. It is bs.
If a guy likes you honestly he wants the girl to be initiating and texting him. I mean a girl texted me a 10 message reply. I loved it.
I wouldn't text a girl I don't like at all. So any girl I do, is better if she initiates and sends long messages/makes it easier to talk.
Only attention seeking women and pua's talk the bs rubbish about keeping short texts.
You are basically saying that yes, it is quite possible to be too clingy, but you don't think your friend was that. Too bad it isn't up to you and your friend to decide.
Being too clingy does exist, there's girls that won't even let you go throw the trash by yourself.
But sending multiple messages or texting first, calling, or whatever, isn't an issue.
There is no too into someone, but there certainly is being too clingy. That's when the desire to spend as much time as possible with your love-interest turns into a necessity. Aka removing your own private life or trying to remove his.
If she's not blowing up my phone (ie filling up my voicemail in an hour or 2 to where no one else can leave a message) or getting mad when I don't check in every hour then it's cool.
If I like a girl and she likes me as well, even if she's texting me 24/7, I'd like it. Where's the problem?
if both make it work or are seemingly okay with it, it doesn't matter.
i like clingey people. its genuiwne and it shows they had good parents to be honest
i think people are fucked up and the norm is godless unloving crap
I don't care if she's clingy as long as she doesn't want to know where I am and what I'm doing every second and want me to only spend time with her
Clinginess would get annoying after a while no matter how much I'm into her.
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