I would try lol.
They're rare to find and seriously just underratedly attractive. Glad someone gets me.
Well, I'm like this myself. Glad you do, gets kind of frustrating when I speak and people think I'm weak or something because I talk low, doesn't happen a lot but occasionally.
Dude, if we knew each other personally, I'd probably give you a chance because I find it really sweet. And someone near you probably does too, man. Just go out there and seek her :)
I'm good at planning dates :P lol. But yeah, still looking for her. Thanks though. I know you'll find that guy someday too.
Gosh, you're a real gem! Dude, really, you've got it, she's out there, just buck up and be yourself. She'll fall for you for everything you are, attributes and flaws alike. :)
I hope so, I'm still waiting for her. And thanks you seem sweet yourself :)
@Flow_Like_The_Wind @TheSolivagant not to be THAT person, but *wink wink nudge nudge* ;)
@ebbyeb Hahaha, that's sweet of you! Most people wouldn't meet over such a website, either way. :)
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Yeah that's what I meant. Not whether he's outgoing or not but how loud or low he speaks. Not low that you can't hear him but like softly spoken.
Yeah, that's totally fine.
Gotcha. Oh one more thing, you said you prefer outgoing guys. So you probably wouldn't be compatible with an introvert?
No, I don't think so.
So are you the aggressive type?
In some ways yes but in others no. I'm just very opinionated and loud (and so is my family) so quiet people don't usually mesh well with me
Is it because they're intimidated by you? Because I know that for some quiet people they found people such as yourself to be intimidating or overwhelming. Then you have the quiet ones who can handle it. I guess it depends on who he is.
Or who they are I should say.
It might be intimidation but it's also just not being heard
True. I think also some quiet people get a bit insecure because they feel they can't keep up with a louder or feel the louder person is bored of them.
Yeah I get told that a lot. Also, I've found a lot of quieter people aren't as confident which also doesn't work for me
Yeah because I learned the hard way that most women like confident guys. You can have quiet confidence but it's difficult to convince people you're a confident guy if you're quiet.
I like confident guys because they tend to be less jealous. I don't have to reassure them constantly that a friend is just a friend and things like that. If you have quiet confidence, that's fantastic :)
Jealousy can be such a killer. I remember asking a question about it months ago. But that's definitely true they do tend to be less jealous. Even if the woman is talking to a taller or better looking or richer or even a guy she's known for years.
A rarity? So you don't find too many soft spoken guys where you live right?
Not really, he could be either outgoing or reserved but he just has a low sounding voice.
Awesome. I know sometimes they can be a little too quiet, right?
Not really because I don't mind.
Tone of voice.
In that case I don't think I've ever known a guy like that, or I simply don't pay that much attention to the voice of a person.
You know how some guys speak loud and others more quietly? That's what I meant, like a low sounding voice but not so low you can't hear him.
Hmm don't really notice, I'm part death anyway so my gauge on loudness is pretty crap. All I do notice though is that a lot of Chinese talk ever so quiet, and I'm sat next to them and still can't hear them.
Oh ok. Wait the Chinese are quiet there? They're loud here... when they speak in Chinese though. They're quiet when they speak English.
Around half the time they're quiet when speaking in Chinese too, but the English part is right.
That's interesting. When the Chinese speak to each other most of the time they're loud in my experience. Especially the females. I used to work at a job that was predominantly Chinese for a little bit and they were loud when talking to each other. And I'm talking about the foreign born ones too.
You find the louder ones more attractive?
Not the loud obnoxious ones. Just guys that have nice deep voice and don't sound like shy quiet mouses. The ones that are soft spoken sound kinda timid to me. I don't know if that makes sense
Yeah I get exactly what you're saying. They can come off as timid even if they're not. Like me I'm a soft spoken guy of course. When I talk I'm not scared or anything lol but have like a low baritone voice.
Well he can be soft spoken and have a deep voice at the same time.
Its not, some girls like the loud flamboyant ones, but then others like the opposite lol.
I'm sure he wouldn't mind speaking a bit louder lol.
I said I like your outfit, oh wait... nah you probably didn't hear me.
Low voice. Like you know how some guys you can hear from a mile away and others who are more gentle when they speak? Like that.
That doesn't really make a difference to me when deciding whether or not to date someone
So you don't mind if he's loud or on the quiet side?
I prefer outgoing guys, but I don't care how loud his voice is
Ok. Just curious though, would you date a more reserved guy even though you said you like them outgoing?
Can you explain what you mean by make you feel womanly?
That's good to hear.
Is that you in your profile pic?
Yes that's me