Can you tell me how he approached you or how he asked you for a date/to be in relationship?
Sure! We actually met when we were 11 years old at school and were friends for 4 years before we got together. I liked him for pretty much all of that time but was way too shy to ever say anything and besides, he was like my best male friend, it'd suck to make things awkward with him and I was too young to do that sort of stuff anyway. When we were 15 we started talking outside of school online and would chat from when we got home from school til when we went to bed, go to school, talk, then go home and do the same thing all over again. One night, we had some kind of event about colleges at school and he was in a super bad mood. He was in the kind of mood where he was so pissed off that he didn't care if something went wrong, he was too annoyed to get sad or nervous so he was like 'fuck it, I'll ask her'. And we were talking online and he suddenly came out with 'go out with me'. It was not the most romantic thing I've ever experienced but we were close enough that I understood why.
I also agree it was not romantic but since you two were already friends you understood:)I have observed that usually people get in relationships over a period of time (friendships) but how can a person like me can approach a girl (random girl in college, not a friend) to ask her for a date? though I am gonna put a detailed question in up coming days but still want to hear your opinion.
For me nerd means anyone who is lost in his studies and has an introvert personality. Also socially awkward.
Lol then that's "introverted and shy," not "nerd." Many of my boyfriends have been book smart, yes, and they were into "nerdy" things (like video games and such) but they all had social skills. At least enough social skills to function in a relationship. I wouldn't date a guy who was so shy and awkward that he couldn't relax around me. My last ex always got really nervous and quiet around my friends or family, and while that isn't why we broke up, it did bother me.I'm an introvert myself but I can function in social situations.
it is nice that your most of the experiences were good:) but a nerd is an introvert and lacks social skills.
Not necessarily, but that is the general stereotype. The good news is that introversion is very manageable and social skills can be learned. :)
yes you are right. :) can you tell me how should I approach a girl? I lack confidence and am self conscious about my looks.
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what height do you think is good?
I'm on the taller side at 5'5 so he'd have to be at least 5'7 for me to be comfy wearing heals but I do prefer tall guys.
okay. So girls usually prefer boys taller than them?
Well that's my preference so I'm not going to even try to speak for other women. You'll have to post a poll on that one! ;)
yes I am going to put a question in two days but still thanks for your opinion :)
your definition is correct. how was your experience?
It's been good..Knowing that I had to choose between simply being able to just seem him once or twice a week or studying together helped motivate me to apply myself more at school. Turns out that studying together can be surprisingly fun as opposed to doing it alone, too.
I am glad to hear that. :)
did you turn down or have you never been approached by one?
Never been approached by one. I'm rarely ever approached to begin with
They have no taste...
if a nerd finds you girly and asks you out but lacks confidence in his voice and body language. Then what will you do?
can you tell me how he was rude.
He was acting like he was better than me, he made me feel reading dumb, and he gave me this " that's not surprising " look everytime I didn't know something.
* really Not reading.
it sounds annoying. thank god I am not like that.
Even if he wasn't really smart, he just had a terrible personality. Yeah that's good! I have met some really nice ones though.
can you give some insights? this is the first time I have heard a girl trying to get a nerd? lol !
sorry for the? after nerd
Ha! Um. What do you mean insights? I love nerds.
I meant what do you find attractive about them, just intelligence?
Oh. Intelligence, not all but some are hot, i like the introverted ones. Not shy but will talk to me.