How do you initiate a connection with a girl in today's world?

CarlKasell
It took me too long to figure out that approaching people in public and in person is generally frowned upon these days.

Given that any change of success in any of the free/paid dating apps have resulted in absolutely nothing, I have no clue how to ask somebody out without somehow oppressing or ruining their day.

I've had nothing but conflicting information thrown my way, and frankly am too scared of doing something wrong and being "that guy."

I know one rule of being successful is by being attractive, and not attractive. But I don't know what that looks like, physically, personality, or morally.

I'm 26, and still a virgin. I feel as if I need to do something to fix it, but still am feeling stuck on the proper, but non-oppressive way to address this.
How do you initiate a connection with a girl in today's world?
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