is it bad to contact first? it's been 4 months. I don't think he will call and I don't care I just want to say hi to him and try being friends with him. I hope it goes somewhere but I don't think so. but I don't care.
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If you want to be his friend, you do care. It's fine to call him as long as you are being respectful. if you want to be his friend I would suggest just inviting him out for a fun time or maybe sending him a funny text.
I really think you're lining yourself up for failure; if this guy hasn't called you in 4 months, I would recommend moving on; but I can see that you'd like to get in touch with him, so I respect your choice.