Do girls prefer a guy with a lot of experience with dating and relationships? Like the been there done that type? Or is it OK to be like an amateur like new to most of it? Which do you prefer and y?
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Try thinking about it this way: if the inexperienced guy comes across as cool, confident, secure, well-dressed, fun and laid back, and the experienced guy comes across as nervous, shy, inhibited, serious, stiff, judgmental etc. (and both types of guys do exist), which do you think will get the most girls? I'll place my bets on the cool inexperienced guy. I'm relatively inexperienced myself, but I'm trying my best to become more attractive and develop those "cool" personality traits and confidence.
(If a girl asks you about your experience, you can do one of three things: 1) play it off in a funny, flirty way [e.g., "I've been with exactly 1,286.7 women. Only 3 and a half of them were cool with me though."], 2) tell her that you don't "kiss and tell," but you'll share more later, or 3) tell her the truth. Whichever you choose, if you say it with CONFIDENCE, it's always more likely to go over well. You can NEVER control a girl's reaction, but you can ALWAYS control your own sense of self-confidence.)
My advice to you would be: don't focus on your experience or lack thereof, but focus on getting practice flirting with girls and displaying a more attractive and confident personality. Best of luck.1
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