My worst date: I was 19 and home for the summer from my first year at college. I joined POF and met a guy who was 21 in my area. He'd just graduated and was working in a coffee shop. Anyway, the date was going okay until he started talking about how none of his friends were around anymore (moved away) and how lonely he was. I felt bad for him, because that sucks right, but then he started crying. I waited for him to pull himself together, which he did but continued to be a bit miserable.
He then started asking how many people I'd been with, as he'd looked at my Facebook page (I hadn't added him) and he'd been looking at pictures of me and some male friends on my course who he thought I'd been with. He didn't believe me when I said they were just friends.
I said that I'd dated a guy at college and he started asking about his dick size to which I declined to answer.
So yeah, the date ended and we never spoke again. Ironically, the guy I dated at college is now my long term boyfriend :)
Most Helpful Guy
This girl was begging me for a date for weeks. She flirted with me all the time, told me that she would love to go out with me. So I said yes, which guy wouldn't if being asked out by a girl.
She talked about herself the whole date. Her instagram followers, how hot every guy thinks she is, how many likes she gets. She never once took interested in me.
She also ordered the most expensive food. Look, I understand that guys have to pay on a date and there's no way around that, but couldn't you at least pick something that won't make me broke for the rest of the month considering I'm still a student?
After I paid the bill, she got on her phone and texted someone. 10 minutes later a dude pulled up in his car and picked her up. I can only assume that it was her boyfriend because they kissed.
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Most Helpful Girl
There were a few things about this date with this guy that were a bit off, but I'd just let them slide chalking it up to maybe I was overreacting in my head to the way he was behaving until the end of the date. We're cruising along and I notice we are in a lane that runs out where you must make a right. I tell him this as a matter of fact, no big deal, that there is no way to proceed forward in the lane we were in because he wasn't turning, but I swear it was like in an instant, he took on this attitude of 'how dare you try to tell me how to drive my own car.'
So the light turns green and he guns it forward, and I'm like hey, um, hey, hey, what are you doing, HEY, LIKE HEY DUDE we're going to... and BOOM, we hit this concrete pillar that was set in place to prevent people from driving forward in that lane. It throws us backward a bit. My body felt messed up from the impact and I could feel the seatbelt that's tightened digging into me. I expect this guy to be like, OMG, I'm so sorry, are you okay.
Nope, this guy jumps out and starts flipping out because apparently this was his grandfathers car. Does he get back in and say, hey, are you okay, sorry I nearly killed you. NO, just starts cursing about the car. I literally tell him, I'm not doing so well over here having been smashed into by a piece of concrete... still, no so sorry, no are you okay, nothing. He manages to get the smashed up car into a nearby parking lot, and I just got out and said, don't worry about it, I'll get my own ride from here. Doesn't try to stop me or apologize. My friend came over ASAP and the first thing she did was take me to emergency care where I had a case of whiplash. Literally the worst first date ever.0