I never know what to say. and I don't mean I don't know what to say to my date. I don't ever know what to say to people I'm not good friends with. when I try, I stumble over my words because there's just not a whole lot up there besides music. all I know is I like the girl on the other side of the table. but if I don't say anything, she's going to think I'm uninterested in her. I've been single for a while because I focus all my energy on making music or w/e and that has replaced everything I used to know. I must seem like a dumb fuck tbh haha. what do I do?
Is it okay to be quiet on a first date?
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No, just talk about anything you would feel comfortable talking about or something you have knowledge of, just no politics! If you stay quiet it will be interpreted as no connection whatsoever and most likely there will be no second date. Talk about anything, water, the park, dogs, cats, the drinks, the food, a movie, just never stay quiet.1
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If you don't talk on your first dates the girl is going to loose interest faster than you can think, try to come up with something, talk about your music, talk about what you like to do in the future with your music, since it's your passion, ask them what they think about music and what they listen to and bllablla and the conversation starts and it never ends ;) just like music :) take care and good luck0
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