So recently I've been back on the dating scene, and I have a problem: I don't want/like children, at all, ever.
I've on a few occasions now become really interested in a guy only to find out he has kids a little ways down the road. Part of me gets really mad about this, because I feel like that's something that people should be up front about.
The other part of me respects that sharing that information is a personal decision--and oh well it won't work out, so I move on.
I don't want to be a freak who immediately asks people if they have kids but I almost feel like I'm going to have to. It's not fair to them or me to waste the time.
Most Helpful Guy
If I had kids I wouldn't tell them about you. I'd fear you'd steal their cupcakes! 😱 jk jk. No they should tell you right away when in the just talking phase2
Most Helpful Girl
they should be upfront about it but unfortunately you can't expect that of people. i understand that you don't want to be rude so in this case i think you'll need to bring it up in conversation1