So I know how easy it is to make yourself sound good on paper, but I'm just starting the facts. I'm definitely not perfect and have unattractive qualities.
im 19, female. I'm a computer engineering student at one of the top 5 programs in the U. S., I have. 3.9 gpa. I started college when I was 17. I volunteer every week feeding homeless families. I'm in okay shape... Pretty average looking girl. I work at my college as a tutor, I have worked at a bookstore before and at coffee shops. I travel often (taking 1-3 trips a year anywhere from 1-4 weeks at a time). I read a lot. I have a pretty big social circle.
I just feel like I'm an okay person and I attract assholes, I don't know.
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Most Helpful Guy
You sound like girlfriend material forsure. What caught my interest is the 3.9 GPA in Computer Engineering. I have the exact same GPA in Mechanical Engineering. This alone shows that you are intelligent and have a strong work ethic. You're well rounded as well with a big social circle which is a huge plus given that a lot of engineering are polar opposite of that.
As far as your looks, this is how I look at it... If a girl is a 5/10 in my books then she is completely datable. She has the ability to turn herself into a 10/10 through time based how she acts and communicates. That initial visual stimulation will get you in the door but I'll never get in a relationship based on solely looks ever again. Huge mistake.
I could be shallow at times when I was looking for a quick fuck for sure but a relationship is within a whole new realm entirely. My girlfriend right now is a total knockout but that's not the only reason I'm dating her. That list as to why I'm dating her is a long one. If she was only hot then I would of just fucked her and been on my way.
Don't be overly concerned about your looks. Everyone woman I've ever known is. Even the ones who legitimately stunning. You sound insecure as if you don't think you have enough value to be datable. That sort of attitude creates a pretty transparent vibe. Just remember that confidence and swagger go a long way.3
Most Helpful Girl
you sound perfect, I mean for a girlfriend material.
to find a guy you might have to try to meet your friends brothers, or try to meet friends friends... another way to meet someone is through a engineering club or say hi to a guy in your engineering class...0