So recently I've noticed that I like to get close to a girl, get to know her and stuff before I asked them out or tell them how I feel, but when I do this, they tell me they just can't imagine dating me, I'm like a big brother, or they don't want to date their best friend. I'm not unattractive (or so I've been told), I'm 6' and about 220 lbs sorta broad with wide shoulders. How do I approach girls without getting too close but still getting to know them well enough to know if I'd like to date them?
Girls, when does a guy get too close to where you wouldn't date him?
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Hmm I think you are taking too long to let them know how you feel. I know it's scary to do it so early but honestly even if the girl doesn't like you back she will still be flattered to know you have feelings for her. It's worth the risk in my opinion to open up a little earlier (out of your comfort zone). :)0
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