So my boyfriend and I have been going out for 2.5 months and we both are busy in our lives and say morning or night over snapchat (that's how we communicate mainly but we text if it's urgent). Anyway we only see each other once or twice a week. He tells me he missed me and we hang out but since it's winter we usually just watch movies or go out to eat or go on short walks. That's not the problem though, all of those things are great but there are times when I see he isn't doing anything and he sees that I'm not doing anything and sometimes I even say I'm not doing anything that I'm just relaxing and he is too. But he doesn't ask me to come over and I don't know why
Most Helpful Guy
Seeing each other twice per week and not really talking on the phone much in between would be ideal for me.0
Most Helpful Girl
It could be he just enjoys some time to himself. If you both live quite busy lives, then him having some down time to just relax probably is needed. 2.5 months is still fairly new relationship wise, maybe asking you over anytime he's free isn't something he's comfortable with just yet. Give it time.
I don't think you should be concerend about it though. Let him do his thing, and you do yours. He's probably still working to balance his busy life, and the new relationship too. In time i'm sure he'll have you over whenever he can.0