Most Helpful Guy
First of all, I wouldn't have a problem with my girlfriend talking to other guys because I'm not a loser.
Second, it sounds like what's happening is that you are probably a very attractive/flirtatious girl. It may be true, maybe it's not. That might just be the word on the street. Who knows. The important thing is that those girls are scared of you and you make them feel insecure.
I wouldn't get mad at the guys, I'm not really sure what you could do about it. Sounds terrible. Honestly I'm a little annoyed for you haha.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
Here's the thing, D and J were interested in you romantically but you shot them both down. They went and got girlfriends. Now, you're right, they only do and will text you when they're drunk or in a fight w/the girlfriend. Because your still friendly. Which is good. SleAys be friendly. but don't be surprised if this trend continues. At your age especially, those girlfriends are very insecure so they lay down the law to the boyfriend about texting, talking with you or any other girls. People get more flexible and easy going as they get older but for now, unfortunately, you just have to deal with others insecurity about being friends with another girl.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE