This guy and I have known each other for 7yrs n was recently dating for 2yrs, but we were never official :( For the pass 8mnths things started to change. He wouldn't call and text as much as he once did, I would barely see him. He takes hours to respond and if he ever called it was if we were seeing each other or a mistake. Nowadays we talk but not as much as before; just small talk and little conversations and then he'll disappear until to the day or whenever he feels to talk to me. I wish he would tell me how he feels and what's going on. Why do I feel so insane, crazy, sort of obsessive after I've been hurt numerous times by him? Why do I still care even when he clearly shows that he doesn't? Why do I still try so much?
Most Helpful Guy
I think a lot of it's wanting want you can't have on your end and on his end, he seems to be manipulative and playing you. Hence him keeping you unsure of your stance with him, him disappearing and contacting you when it's convenient for him.
I dated a girl like this a few months ago and honestly it's best to avoid these types of people as they are toxic and it'll only get worse.
I feel your pain though I couldn't get this girl out of my mind as we had so many common interests and she was gorgeous. But the more I found out about her, the more I realized I dodged a bullet.2
Most Helpful Girl
Because guys sometimes keep a girl in suspense and usually because they don't care enough or know how to show they care, I am tired of it and done with it. You deserve better, find a man who can give you the attention you deserve which is daily. We aren't asking for every minute of every day but a girl knows when she is being brushed off or kept at bay for whatever reason.6