Is the blame solely on the one who cheated or both to be blamed?
Most Helpful Guy
Mostly it is. But i always like to assume the other side was at least 10% at fault so say if you cheated on me, you would bear a majority of the blame but i would also be somewhat at fault as well.
Why? because people cheat for many different reasons. Majority of the time it is because their partners have become emotionally distant. This leads to me holding 10%, but remember the cheater holds 90% which it means they are almost entirely at fault.
If they cheated for the fun of it or if they are a serial cheater than it is 100% on the cheater.0
Most Helpful Girl
The blame is soley on the one who cheated. Adults are soley responsible for their own actions, they have a choice regardless of their situation or circumstances. It was their choice or decision to cheat , their reason is irrelevant.
People only try to lay some or all the blame on their SO... to either lift their burden of guilt , or to justify their behaviour because they know they are on the wrong. They know they are soley to blame1