I want a relationship and to love someone but I love to go out too. After working and school I like to let loose and have a good time. People tell me I need to stop going out (which is only on the weekends) and settle down but I don't understand why I can't have both. People seem to think partying = irresponsible, lazy, etc. As long as I'm responsible, do what I have to do and I'm loyal I don't see the problem.
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I'm the same way. I was in a relationship for the past 3+ years and now I'm finally free. But I wouldn't mind being back in a meaningful relationship. I just think you need to find someone that has the same agenda as you. I'm at the point now where I go out and drink and get loose and have a good time (I have been drinking tonight lol) doing that won't stop you from finding someone. Be you and do what you want. The person you are meant to be with will be similar to you.0