I usually have sex with guys on the first date and I usually don't hear from them after the first few dates. Why don't they want a relationship with me after I have sex with them right away?
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I would say there are three possibilities..
1. They were interested in you and then lost interest in you because they assumed "gee if she was that easy for me to get I wonder how many other guys got her that easily". Key point, guys do NOT care that you were easy for THEM. They are generally only turned off if they think you were easy for OTHER GUYS. Like if he felt like he was a special case and that you don't normally sleep with guys that easily then he wouldn't care.
2. They never had any interest in a relationship with you anyways. They are generally the type of guys who attract women easily and want to enjoy their options for as long as possible before settling down.
3. They didn't lose interest in you for having sex with them on the first date and they were open to a relationship, BUT you didn't have what they were looking for in a relationship. So maybe they felt your personalities were incompatible or maybe even because the sex was bad.6